What the F**k is Being Real? Part I
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A lot of niggas have gotten it twisted when it comes down to what being real is. It has been conceived that if one is black, being real is being a criminal, being bad or negative.
For example when it comes to rappers, when it is asked who is the realest, names such as Young Jeezy, Gucci Mane,etc. pop up. You barely hear people like Talib Kweli or Lupe Fiasco mentioned. Which leads to my next question: Could someone be real without being bad or portraying a certain image?

Most of the niggas who are supposedly real either claimed and believed to be real gangstas or to have commited some sort of crime.
The fucked up thing is that most of the people in the Black, Latino and even some white communities want to be _"real". This leads to them aspiring and putting all their energy to try and live a certain lifestyle which most likely involves the idea that. "Bad is real_" and "Good is for pussies"
This leads to a lot of smart, but mislead brothers getting arrested for crimes that should not even happen in the first place.
I was watching America’s Most Wanted on TV the other day, and there was four niggas who killed this other innocent nigga who was home form college on vacation, because they were trying to send a message out to his cousin. Then when the four "*Real*_" or "Gangsta niggas_" were trying drive away from the cops, they got in a car crash, and killed an innocent white boy who was coming from work going to his mother’s house for dinner.
Three of the four niggas have been arrested and another one is being looked for.
Now, them four supposedly "Real Niggas are probably going to serve life which means that four brothers who had the potential of being something in their life, probably bringing positive change to the community are gone and locked away.
Never less, a brother who was actually making change and going to college trying to get out of the hood is dead and gone. And so is the innocent white boy who was supposed to rejoice with his family.
Now, I am not saying that the system or the world that we are living in is ran at its best at all, but what I know is that there is opportunity, there is a way out because nothing is impossible.
Niggas are made to believe that the only was out of the hood is playing a sport, doing music or something else that would put you on the spotlight, but how many candidates are there in the hood? Now, how many do actually make it into the entertainment business? Not that many, now; what about the ones who don’t make it and sped the rest of their lives trying to make it when they know that they never will make it, but they do not want to admit it? For example you have some forty years old guys who aspire to be rappers competing whit youngins so they are forced to act like youngins when it is clear that they will never make it. If you go to the hood every nigga is a rapper, a drop out, etc. ( this is a subject for another blog)

The way things are going right now is the government’s plan. Let me explain:
Think about it, one out of every three black men are locked up, which leads to a many cases of children without fathers ( which is prominent in the hood) and a lot of women without husbands. This has led many in the hood to forget the role of a man in the family. Oh wait, many have forgotten the role of a family.
Now, the fucked up thing is that black people have given up, sometimes when you even ask little kids in the hood, they will tell you " I was born here, I am going to claim my hood and rep it till I die." That shit hurts me the most because black people are falling into the plan. Just because you woke up in a trap does not mean you should not try to get out.

My issue with rappers and all big black figures is that they are the role models for our communities because every one wants to be like them. But most of them do not address the issues that are going on, instead, they encourage the negativity.
The real meaning of being real is doing what your heart tells you is right. Being real is appreciating life and not being proud of taking another human being’s life away.
As for now, that is all I have time for, but stay tuned for part two. I would love and appreciate what you guys have to say in comments. Thank You
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I understand that these celebrities are philanthropists and donate to charities, give back to the communities or whatever. But do you think that they are doing enough?
Imagine if 50 cent was a spokesperson for…
Look at Amaru Shakur……
Stay tuned y’all, and stay real. No I mean stay really real if you know what I am saying.



























-The only reason i could think why people think this way is cause of stupidity.If you live in shit your first goal in life is to clean yourself from that shit.YES I’M SAYING THE HOOD IS SHIT.
-And no if the people move out the hood and never go back its not called being a sellout.
-Also i give more credit to Lupe Fiasco than, young jeezy.Cause it would be easier for Lupe Fiasco if he was a drug dealer/felon but he is a black guy who liked star wars and is admittedly a nerd(also great lyricist) and never writes about selling drugs as good.
WAKE THE F-UP YOUTH OF AMERICA
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What it meant to be “real” 10 years ago has taken a turn around and been substituted with pretending and talking like you are “real”
The funniest shit to me is when someone actually has to tell you how “real” they are. Like they need re-assurance because they arent really certain about it so they make sure to tell you a million times about how “real” they are.
Its a long and winding road for us.
Fuck being “real”
Just do you and people will respect it.
but yea all yall nigus need to read this blog man i prop that motherfuckn shit.
the god is in the building
I, for one , see these niggas and already assume that they’re faking it, until they prove otherwise.
To me, some rappers are or were, who they say they are. But as you became successful, how many niggas have u seen that didn’t make it or died? Alot of these niggas don’t really see how much the youngins try to imitate and follow thier stories and songs.smh And these young niggas are dumber than they used to be, so they are more easily swayed to do things.
sad but true,…
anyway, i agree with your points.
Gud looks fam, all I am tryina do is inform niggas about the real shit cuz shit is only worsening.
this is a good blog man real thought out. you ever think about politics? haha
We need to start educating these lil g’s out here fam because one day people are going to realize, but it is going to be late.
im most impressed with the examples you gave
the flow to this blog is truly the best ive read in a while
now i’m a NM … Noon i’ll become IM
i defeated alexei shirov the other day in a blitz game so i’m sart
NNOO BODY ever said u gotta b black to b real .. thats just how YOU see ..and by you i mean everybody who think that way ..
SECOND you are talking about diff types of “real” .. rappers who claim shit and people who are upfront .. so u ask y not lupe or talib .. i just answered it ..
and its so obvious to me that you and all the other people who agree with you are just spectators ..
i no real ass og niggas with educations
so you think that being real means being stupid .. to a extent i agree with you because thats how them “outer city corny niggas” think thats being real.
And also the hood mentality is intoxicatin to the black nd many other communities. Read again, and get the real point that I am making.
I appreciate your opinion btw.
yea u right i didnt read shit lool
yall niggas get too serious over dis shit tho
i was gone when i replied to dis blog .. i didnt even know i replied to dis blog until i scrolled down lool
good blog, that was really real words of encouragement!
folks got to realize that you gotta age and as you age you got to mature and as you mature you gotta start to do better because you know better! You cant go you whole life blaming someone else for what you are putting yourself through. You can still be down for your people by helping so them up and out of a life they do not need to be living…key word"need" life is full of choices we just got to start making the right ones!
daddydaddy….Make a blog about this sagging shit…lol I mean, I used to get that shit when i was in high school…Now, i just don’t see why the fuck its so cool? Niggas be taking that shit a little TOO far too….lol for example my man in the celtics joint..
Being real is getting your education, getting a job, & supporting your family like a real nigga should.
Being real is being YOURSELF all day everyday & not putting up some fake image.
People let this rap music get to their head these days and have them thinking they are just like their favorite rapper.
Selling drugs, killing or robbing people doesn’t make you real. A real person wouldn’t do that kind of shit. A real nigga goes out and gets money the legal way.