What the F**k is Being Real? Part I

by DaddyDaddy

What is being real?__

A lot of niggas have gotten it twisted when it comes down to what being real is. It has been conceived that if one is black, being real is being a criminal, being bad or negative.

For example when it comes to rappers, when it is asked who is the realest, names such as Young Jeezy, Gucci Mane,etc. pop up. You barely hear people like Talib Kweli or Lupe Fiasco mentioned. Which leads to my next question: Could someone be real without being bad or portraying a certain image?

Most of the niggas who are supposedly real either claimed and believed to be real gangstas or to have commited some sort of crime.

The fucked up thing is that most of the people in the Black, Latino and even some white communities want to be _"real". This leads to them aspiring and putting all their energy to try and live a certain lifestyle which most likely involves the idea that. "Bad is real_" and "Good is for pussies"

This leads to a lot of smart, but mislead brothers getting arrested for crimes that should not even happen in the first place.
I was watching America’s Most Wanted on TV the other day, and there was four niggas who killed this other innocent nigga who was home form college on vacation, because they were trying to send a message out to his cousin. Then when the four "*Real*_" or "Gangsta niggas_" were trying drive away from the cops, they got in a car crash, and killed an innocent white boy who was coming from work going to his mother’s house for dinner.

Three of the four niggas have been arrested and another one is being looked for.

Now, them four supposedly "Real Niggas are probably going to serve life which means that four brothers who had the potential of being something in their life, probably bringing positive change to the community are gone and locked away.

Never less, a brother who was actually making change and going to college trying to get out of the hood is dead and gone. And so is the innocent white boy who was supposed to rejoice with his family.

Now, I am not saying that the system or the world that we are living in is ran at its best at all, but what I know is that there is opportunity, there is a way out because nothing is impossible.
Niggas are made to believe that the only was out of the hood is playing a sport, doing music or something else that would put you on the spotlight, but how many candidates are there in the hood? Now, how many do actually make it into the entertainment business? Not that many, now; what about the ones who don’t make it and sped the rest of their lives trying to make it when they know that they never will make it, but they do not want to admit it? For example you have some forty years old guys who aspire to be rappers competing whit youngins so they are forced to act like youngins when it is clear that they will never make it. If you go to the hood every nigga is a rapper, a drop out, etc. ( this is a subject for another blog)

The way things are going right now is the government’s plan. Let me explain:

Think about it, one out of every three black men are locked up, which leads to a many cases of children without fathers ( which is prominent in the hood) and a lot of women without husbands. This has led many in the hood to forget the role of a man in the family. Oh wait, many have forgotten the role of a family.

Now, the fucked up thing is that black people have given up, sometimes when you even ask little kids in the hood, they will tell you " I was born here, I am going to claim my hood and rep it till I die." That shit hurts me the most because black people are falling into the plan. Just because you woke up in a trap does not mean you should not try to get out.

My issue with rappers and all big black figures is that they are the role models for our communities because every one wants to be like them. But most of them do not address the issues that are going on, instead, they encourage the negativity.

The real meaning of being real is doing what your heart tells you is right. Being real is appreciating life and not being proud of taking another human being’s life away.

As for now, that is all I have time for, but stay tuned for part two. I would love and appreciate what you guys have to say in comments. Thank You

What the Fuck is Being Real? Part II: _ Preview_
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I understand that these celebrities are philanthropists and donate to charities, give back to the communities or whatever. But do you think that they are doing enough?

Imagine if 50 cent was a spokesperson for…

Look at Amaru Shakur……

Stay tuned y’all, and stay real. No I mean stay really real if you know what I am saying.

 
 
 
 

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daddydaddy11 days ago
This is some real shit so read, and think before commenting fam! I appreciate.
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pmoney311 days ago
im realer than a pair of silicon tits. real talk
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blackmamba2411 days ago
its offical , young mayo is a closet boston fan !! yol mayo why do you have that black paint under you eyes dawg !!
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kingml21311 days ago
-Great blog man.

-The only reason i could think why people think this way is cause of stupidity.If you live in shit your first goal in life is to clean yourself from that shit.YES I’M SAYING THE HOOD IS SHIT.

-And no if the people move out the hood and never go back its not called being a sellout.

-Also i give more credit to Lupe Fiasco than, young jeezy.Cause it would be easier for Lupe Fiasco if he was a drug dealer/felon but he is a black guy who liked star wars and is admittedly a nerd(also great lyricist) and never writes about selling drugs as good.

WAKE THE F-UP YOUTH OF AMERICA


king
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blowxxme9 days ago
There is no more “real”

What it meant to be “real” 10 years ago has taken a turn around and been substituted with pretending and talking like you are “real”

The funniest shit to me is when someone actually has to tell you how “real” they are. Like they need re-assurance because they arent really certain about it so they make sure to tell you a million times about how “real” they are.

Its a long and winding road for us.

Fuck being “real”

Just do you and people will respect it.
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thegodinaction11 days ago
I feel u daddydaddy, i mean nigus these days are plain ol dumb and shit, man u speak the truth, and your shit is well written, well spoken, daimn jokesta shud have ya ass up on defsounds stuff no homo.

but yea all yall nigus need to read this blog man i prop that motherfuckn shit.


the god is in the building
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dooflinky11 days ago
daddydaddy, are you tryin to support snitchin with this blog, i think you pro-snitch my nigga, this blog sounds to anti-gangsta for me!
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daddydaddy11 days ago
I appreciate the hate fam, but shyt just think bout the shit, nd part two will explain it all. But stay gangsta if u want to man, or in that case e-gangsta.
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wrongidea11 days ago
Yo, i feel you. And the funny thing about niggas is that they can’t see through alot of these niggas on tv’s personas.smh Especially when half of them if not 90% of it, is fraudulant.
I, for one , see these niggas and already assume that they’re faking it, until they prove otherwise.
To me, some rappers are or were, who they say they are. But as you became successful, how many niggas have u seen that didn’t make it or died? Alot of these niggas don’t really see how much the youngins try to imitate and follow thier stories and songs.smh And these young niggas are dumber than they used to be, so they are more easily swayed to do things.
sad but true,…
anyway, i agree with your points.
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daddydaddy11 days ago
^^^Props

Gud looks fam, all I am tryina do is inform niggas about the real shit cuz shit is only worsening.
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kingbee11 days ago
Good blog daddydaddy I give yu props on some real ass shit
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daddydaddy11 days ago
Good looks fam!
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alwaysstrapped11 days ago
Yes to be considered real in the streets you have to do crime and all the dumb shit that comes with it that’s what real means that you really doing crime and not just talking about or portraying that image
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daddydaddy11 days ago
I feel u man for real if u are real, u don’t gotta prove it man.
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jaffar11 days ago
50 a real nigga
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harleykanabo11 days ago
you are real for writing this from the mind and heart. i agree, i may not be black but i can appreciate the strive. its just the way the system has young people in a chokehold, if they dont have a certain amount of money or have parents with great lifestyles and careers they feel inclined to do the crime to prove summin.

this is a good blog man real thought out. you ever think about politics? haha
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harleykanabo11 days ago
bare props to you though man! pure props
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moodog11 days ago
Awesome fukin blog, my dude! I agree with a lot of the brothas on this discussion. Keepin it real hasnt been real in like 15 years! lol!! One of the issue is parents who have become afraid of their own kids. Parents dont fuk kids up no more! Kids run the house! PArents today let their punk ass sons run around with their pants to their ankles, disrespecting the house and all that. Shit, the PARENTS of today are just kids themselves!! The kind of yungins that these punk ass parents are producing are soft, sensitive, pussy ass nuckas who cant solve problems without guns, insults, threats or a crew. They are following their favorite rappers, but most of their favorite rappers are cowards without all of the security around them.(plies anyone? Jim Jones being chased around the rucker anyone? Young berg anyone? the list goes on) The internet has destroyed ‘keeping it real’ as well. Any 13 year old with acne can get online and talk tough shit, and create gangsta names. Any jerk with a video cam can pose with some guns and call themseves gangstas on utube. No more validity in the culture. You said a lot of true things and i cant cover them all, but the pic you have with the two imbeciles that have on the celtics jackets/jersey says it all. Those two look like a pair of short bus niggas. Im sure if you said BOO! They would do the 40 yard dash! They have been tricked into thinking that looking like a retard is real by hip hop standards. From the artist to the fans, hip hop has ruined itself. Whats real? Getting that education and bettering urself is real. Taking care of your family is real. Being a standup nucka that makes no excuses for himself is real. Teaching the younger g’s the right way to behave is real. All that other shit is just bullshit for bullshitters. Great blog, man.
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daddydaddy10 days ago
^^Props man 100%

We need to start educating these lil g’s out here fam because one day people are going to realize, but it is going to be late.
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ghastly10 days ago
THIS is real shit man good blog, im tired of hearing the same old complaints about being trapped in the system, having the system against us etc. if those ‘thugs REALLY wanted to do something about it they would stop doing dumb shit get an education and go about change in a possitive way. all these ’gangsters’ are caught up in today and dont give a shit about 2mrw
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daddydaddy10 days ago
When they say: “_WE R MADE WISE NOT BY THE RECOLLECTION OF OUR PAST , BUT BY THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR FUTURE.”_
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spdaghost10 days ago
this shit is what every1 needs to read
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gangstalicious10 days ago
i agree wit my nigga doo on that shit son i have been on the street selling rocks and cappin niggas since age 4 dog and if u want a real gangster just talk to lil wayne and birdman coz they the truth that’s what real bloods are <3
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daddydaddy10 days ago
I hope you are not serious, and if u tryina b funny man u got a long way 2 go fam.
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nerdkingofgames10 days ago
be real by being yourself. if you’re smart be smart, if you’re strong be strong, but DON’T be ignorant. Everyone is born ignorant, but the most of the best people in the world started by coming out of their ignorance.
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ryjohnson10 days ago
Aye this is some of the realist stuff I have heard in a while man!! Your words are truly spoken keep writting cause many people need to hear this! It’s sad cause so many of the same rappers that talk of “being a voice for our generation” are the same ones who glorify Killin one another, selling drugs, and only rap about cars and money. So is this all our generation has to offer??? Food for thoght
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therealrunnels10 days ago
This is a great blog
im most impressed with the examples you gave
the flow to this blog is truly the best ive read in a while
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murderinc10 days ago
i’m going to be a GM

now i’m a NM … Noon i’ll become IM

i defeated alexei shirov the other day in a blitz game so i’m sart
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murderinc10 days ago
soon *
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daddydaddy10 days ago
Man u must be on sumn fam.
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king1gangsta10 days ago
okay first off you generalising way too much
NNOO BODY ever said u gotta b black to b real .. thats just how YOU see ..and by you i mean everybody who think that way ..
SECOND you are talking about diff types of “real” .. rappers who claim shit and people who are upfront .. so u ask y not lupe or talib .. i just answered it ..
and its so obvious to me that you and all the other people who agree with you are just spectators ..
i no real ass og niggas with educations
so you think that being real means being stupid .. to a extent i agree with you because thats how them “outer city corny niggas” think thats being real.
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daddydaddy10 days ago
Nigga obviously you don’t get my point, all I am sayin is that many of these rappers are misleading. And what is portrayed in the media as being real is really not, if you get my point.

And also the hood mentality is intoxicatin to the black nd many other communities. Read again, and get the real point that I am making.

I appreciate your opinion btw.
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king1gangsta10 days ago
like katt said if you dont know what real is then u fake lol
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imabusinessman10 days ago
Like 50’s old song quote," This is real shit" Now Daddydaddy, I hope you know that ignorance sells till someone else says that ignorance ain’t cool no more.Who that somebody gone be? Your guess is as good as mine.But sometimes niggas gotta say what they feel.And alot of niggas don’t want to listen to what you gotta say because they are so discouraged by what is going on in front of their building stoop or hallway.Music influences us in a great way.Maybe we should change the music and see what happens…Let me holla at Tim or that dude that did “I Get Money” beat. But overall, good ideas.Keep up the knowledge my nigga. UNO!!!!!!
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moody2810 days ago
@KING1GANGSTA-In ur thirst to find a flaw in this blog, you really have only proved its point. In ur quest to be ‘real’ you provided us with the most nonsensical, clueless post of the day. Do ‘real’ cats just sit up and get so frustrated/jealous with a good blog that they just HAVE to find something negative to say about it? If ur post had made any sense at all, i would say that its just ur opinion. The truth is, ur post looks like came from a dude whose mad that someone probly described HIM in the blog. Thats just my humble opinion. No, ‘really’. Im just trying to be ‘real’ with you. peace.
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king1gangsta7 days ago
lmao
yea u right i didnt read shit lool
yall niggas get too serious over dis shit tho
i was gone when i replied to dis blog .. i didnt even know i replied to dis blog until i scrolled down lool


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secondson10 days ago
good blog fam. i think the keepin it real mentality is what has a lot of rappers facing charges these days. niggas aint gangsta for real, but since they portray themselves as such, they go out and do dumb shit and end up in trouble. and you know what their Stans do, follow their ignorant ass lead. people can be so fake sometimes i tell, and they beleive in their hearts they keepin it real, cause they keepin it GANGSTA!
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gblocker10 days ago
Dam good blog ,I ain’t gone lie ,I used to be one of those niggaz but keepin’ it real went wrong on me and I went to prison but now i have a son and a wife to look out for and there’s no place in my life for “Real Dummies”!!!!!!!!! This blog is too deep for me to explain further but Daddy Daddy that was the “Realiest Blog” I ever read on Defsounds and for the record i’d rather be a "Real Man " than a “Real Nigga” anyday!!!!!!! ………….Do u niggaz think that when u die and go to heaven that the Lord is going to say “Oh you was a Real Nigga on earth so you get a free pass into Heaven”If u truly believe that in yo heart then please read this blog 10 times and prey!!!!!!!!!
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mecca0910 days ago
“thats what i was trying to say!”

good blog, that was really real words of encouragement!

folks got to realize that you gotta age and as you age you got to mature and as you mature you gotta start to do better because you know better! You cant go you whole life blaming someone else for what you are putting yourself through. You can still be down for your people by helping so them up and out of a life they do not need to be living…key word"need" life is full of choices we just got to start making the right ones!
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christian8789 days ago
this is the realest blog ever…..50 cent stans are the worst on this type of subject cause they think that 50 is the realest person ever just becuase he is always talkin about his ill shoot you madafucker shit when he perfectly know he wont do that anymore…. and then thisis50 and 50 stans on here be hating on jay just because he matured and all that. niqqas be talkin about that 50 cent is hip hop… well IMO niqqas like 50 is what be holding hip hop back!
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skeazaleo9 days ago
lol at my man in the celtics jacket….thats a MEAN ass sag….lol


daddydaddy….Make a blog about this sagging shit…lol I mean, I used to get that shit when i was in high school…Now, i just don’t see why the fuck its so cool? Niggas be taking that shit a little TOO far too….lol for example my man in the celtics joint..
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secondson9 days ago
dude pockets are somewhere around his ankles. i would hate to see the police after his ass, cause he would surely get locked the hell up! smh.
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moodog9 days ago
@SKEAZALEO-HAHHAH!!! Word, homie! Lil man took sagging to levels unseen! He has to be dubbed ‘THE UBER-SAGGER’! If he could only know how dated and pitiful he looks…..
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blackmamba249 days ago
i look foward to part 2..your a educated dude and i enjoyed this shit nigga.. funny how these 50 % real peep’s who leave real comments , and then there is the FAKE and your picture of the boston dudes sum’s up these e-thugs..
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daddydaddy9 days ago
Gud looks fam I got more coming. Stay tuned, there is another blog that I just wrote and it is called “Reality Vs. illusion.”
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sadamiddin5 days ago
REAL IS BEING TRUE TO URSELF AND SEEING THINGS FOR WHAT IT IS IN THE WORLD. REAL DON’T MEAN BEAING A THUG OR GANGSTA. NIGGAS WHO THINK THAT ARE DANS (DUMB ASS NIGGAS) AND ARE DOING WHAT ERBODY ELSE IS DOING YOU KNO TRYNA BE A THUG JUST BECAUSE NIGGAS THINK IT’S COOL. FUCK WIT WHAT THEY THINK AND BE TRU TO URSELF THATS BEING REAL MY NIG! HOPE THIS ANSWER YA QUESTION DADDY DADDY STAY REAL MY NIG! DANS NO SPEAKY!!
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sadamiddin5 days ago
OH YEAH PIC OF THEM DUDES SAGGIN THEY SHIT FUNNY ASS HELL! LOL!! PHILLY E-DAY A-DAY!
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ashylarry4 days ago
Being real isn’t about being gangster, thug, goon, or whatever. You can have a good image n still be a real person. Being real is in someone’s heart not their image. Being a “thug” gets you nowhere in life. Most of these niggas who claim they bangin, thugs, or whatever wouldn’t even bust a grape in a fruit fight and they just talk real tough.

Being real is getting your education, getting a job, & supporting your family like a real nigga should.

Being real is being YOURSELF all day everyday & not putting up some fake image.

People let this rap music get to their head these days and have them thinking they are just like their favorite rapper.

Selling drugs, killing or robbing people doesn’t make you real. A real person wouldn’t do that kind of shit. A real nigga goes out and gets money the legal way.
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