Before I start this blog, I would like to thank all of my Defsounds brothers and sisters who read the "What the Fck is Being Real? Part I" blog. I really appreciate it and from the comments that I read, I can see hope for the future.

Most people did get the point of the blog, but some did not; I read a comment that talked about snitching, it read _"daddydaddy, are you tryin to support snitchin with this blog, i think you pro-snitch my nigga, this blog sounds to anti-gangsta for me!"
I hope that whoever wrote this comment was not serious at all, but it brought something that is commonly talked about in our hip hip hop and black communities: SNITCHIN
For those who do not know, snitchin means to act as an informant or a decoy for the police.
This brought something to my mind, where is the line traced when it comes to snitchin?
I grew up in the hood myself, and I have been to many hoods even overseas.
The mentality in the hood is that of "Fuck the Police" which is a understandable since the law does not do minorites justice especially black people here in America.
I am pretty sure that most of you are familiar with the Rodney King incident and the most recent Sean Bell shooting in New York, and many many others.
The thing is that many people have a misconception about snitching. Many people define it from what they hear about in songs, hear people talk about , but they don’t really know what snitching is.
I don’t want niggas to get the impression that I am telling them to go out there and snitch or talk on business that is not theirs.
But I am going to raise a question: Let us say that u was walking around, and you peeped in an alley, and you saw five dudes that you recognize ( let us say that you are cool with them) raping a girl (no matter what age); what would you do?
Would you tell on them? If so, then would that be snitching? The answer is yours.
This brings me back to the whole situation with my niggus in the hood, and also to the whole topic about being real.
You see, us black people have been stripped of our identities, we have been brainwashed over the years and we have gotten lazy. Don’t knock me for telling the truth fam! I am black myself and it hurts putting it down like this.
You see Malcolm X once said "Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you’re a man, you take it."
That is the problem with many niggas, you see some niggas take their freedom, and some nigus are given it.
The niggas that take their freedom are the ones who work hard to make it somewhere in life without depending on anyone else (especially the white guy). These are also the nigus who don’t blame other people for their mistakes or failures because they know that it is part of the process.
One can never learn unless he or she never makes mistakes.
The niggas who are given their freedom are the niggas who take shit for granted. If they are eligible to get a foodstamp, they will go for it, or whatever.
This is the beginnig of dependance because if someone gave you freedom, he can take it whenever he wants. If some one gave you freedom, they can manipulate you with it because they set the rules for it. If shit is given to you, it is limited, the giver hands you as much as he wants, but if you are taking something you will try to take as much as you want.
Now let us go back to the years that niggas became free(60’s, 50’s, years of the movements), do you think they were given their freedom or they took it?
I believe that most of niggas were given their freedom, which has kept many of us in a trap.
Because if you analyze it, they wanted integration which is defined as "__The bringing of people of different racial or ethnic groups into unrestricted and equal association, as in society or an organization._"
If you analyze it, this process was used to make black people equal in a white society instead of creating a black and white society.
It might sound racist, but in this society if it is not white, it is not right. We see this through jobs, what is considered to be professional, etc.
For example if you don’t speak white, you don’t speak right.
I remember when I moved to New Hampshire for the first time, these to white girls I was talking to asked "Why do you speak that way?" and went on to tell me that I should learn how to speak like them.
Now if we are equal, then why should I learn how to speak like a white person in order to be considered for a certain profession, or to be considered proper?

Don’t get me wrong I am not saying that they should let people get their doctorates while slanging and shit. I mean we all need education.
The point that I am trying to make is: why is there not as much effort put in the hoods on education as the other parts of the country? The schools are fucked up, and the budgets are low.
One of the solutions to this problem could be to give all children the same opportunity. That would be right since we supposedly are equal, but the truth is that we really are not.

Let me get to the point that I am trying to make with the blog. I know that it is fucked up for us black people, many of us are locked up, drug dealers, etc. And this is all the product of our environments. But there is always a way out.
The sad thing is that many of us have been tricked to accepting these conditions. We have been masked with rights that we don’t have. Because if we were free, then how come a third of us is in prison? We are still getting harassed by the police and all that.
I blame the system for being set up this way, but I also blame us, blacks. Because we have ceased fire while the enemy is still shooting.
What I mean is that, the government pretended to give us freedom so we could calm down.
I know that some are going to disagree with me, but from a person who grew up watching the harsh realities of this country, I see no equality because it is more blacks than whites being targeted by the cops, it is more of our neighborhoods that are unsafe, and the list goes on. Most of us don’t even make it to college. Most of us end up getting locked up, dead or on the streets, many of us take the streets for a home.
Many of us were raised in the streets which means that many of us must be homeless, speaking metaphorically. How come our beloved country does not provide us with a home?
There are wars being fought overseas, but there is also civil wars being fought in our neighborhoods! But they don’t care about us.

I know that in many situations it seems that our options are limited, and I understand that.
What we need to do is wake up, I know we gotta eat and sometimes selling that pack seems like the only options, but think about it. You are risking many years, I know that life is not fair, the system is not fair, but you got to learn how to make it fair, and that is by being unfair if you know what I mean.
Instead of breaking the law, why don’t we try to change it? Nigus need to get the brave hearts back, all the movements that died out need to resurrect.
The key to life is education, so we need to educate ourselves as much as we can, our parents might try, but as long as we are not wiling to get that education, we are not going any where.
I know that shit is fucked up, that is just reality, and it is not going to change unless we change it. The world is yours, you do what you want with it because we all are part of this universe equally.

Life may not be fair, but death is, we only have one life to live, don’t let it pass by you because it is very short.
I hope you get the point that I wanted to get across.
Thank you. My bad if the blog was too long, I was just thinking, and I’d blame myself if I didn’t put it out there. So don’t hesitate to speak of what you think either. I would appreciate anything that you would like to say in the comments.
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is the world fair no. but in America i feel people have the best chance to succeed.
really makes u think.
But good looks on the advice fam.
being an informant is when you provide the police with info, even when you not in trouble, usually for a fee.
witnessing a girl get raped and callin the police is your civic responsibility. that is not snitchin at all. i hope i cleared shit up for the dummies. i know the intellegent people up here already knew these facts!
i’m playing COD MW2 and the shit is banging so stop this bullshit ang get some pussy
and don’t hate nigga, self-educate.Niggas are always quick to dismiss something that seems too tedious of a task, and that’s why you never succeed.smh
and wtf is your online name anyway, so I can fuck up your score.lol
→ <3 <- right there. there’s not really much I can elaborate on cuz you’ve touched on it all. PropsThis generation needs some serious education…
You know when its evident that this generation is fucked? When brothas call a blog too long to read. Nuckas will read 6 pages of a gossip report, but cant read 8 paragraphs of truth. I think the thing that we have to remember is that we are online! Most of these bufoons have no idea what these streets is. Remember when u tube first exploded on the scene? You always had a bunch of skinny suburban kids brawling, calling each other nigga, and getting their e-thug on. They fantasized about the urban lifestyle but knew they were pussy. Thats how most of these cats online are. So when we talk about snitchin, i dont really pay too many nuckas on here any attention. they are sittin behind a keyboard, being hardcore nerds. lol!!! The internet has no face.
Besides crack cocaine, gangs, and jealousy, snitchin is the biggest reason that our communities are in shambles. Idiot rappers talk about stop snitching, but get arrested and cop p’s. Tough ass gangbangers and street niggas commit murders, get caught…and rat. Most entertainers dont give a fuk about the hood or anything else. Its just the dollar. Trust me, the hard nuckas screaming stop snitchin…snitch. Todays kids are mindless, no identity having wannabes. They dont see how this trash has ruined the lives of their past present and future.
Im from BK,NYC! Ive seen it all, and unfortunately…been in it all. Still, i never get on here and call niggas dickriders and talk about guns and shit because im a grown man now with responsibility. Keep writing that good shit and know this. These lil cyber-goons would be the first ones ‘snitchin’ if they got caught in that blender. We know it, and so do they. Good blog. You should write a short book or somthing, my g! peace.
Stay up!
can you give me your number? we can go to the park 4 a walk, the world is ours baby!
Some of it I disagree with but in general its on point.
BEING FROM THE HOOD DOESN’T MEAN SHIT. I THINK THAT PEOPLE THINK THEY GET A SPECIAL BADGE FOR BEING FROM THE HOOD AS IF IT MAKES THEM HARDER, FASTER, STRONGER (MY KANYE MOMENT LOL). YES IM FROM THE GHETTO AND I UNDERSTAND IT BECAUSE I AM APART OF THAT CULTURE, BUT IT DOESNT CONTROL ME. THE GHETTO NIGGAS AND FEMALES AINT DONE SHIT FOR ME. I WAS PICKED ON GROWING UP AND SHHIT SCARRED MY SELF-ESTEEM A LIL BIT.
WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS; CAPABLE OF BEING BRAVE, SCARED, HAPPY, STRONG, SEXY, SWAGGED-OUT, SMART, DUMB, LAZY, INDEPENDENT, NAIIVE, CRAZY. LIKE THE IGNORANCE IS OVERWHELMING. I LIKE YOUR QUOTE FROM MALCOM X BECAUSE YOU DO HAVE TO TAKE THE INICIATIVE TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT EVERYONE IS ESSENTIALLY THE SAME.
I DON’T KNOW IF YALL REMEMBER THE D.C. SNIPERS WHO KILLED ALL THOSE PEOPLE BACK IN OCT 2002, BUT THE OLDEST ONE WAS EXECUTED AND THE YOUNGEST ONE GOT LIFE. I JUST WATCHED A SPECIAL ON THAT AND THE FEAR THAT THEY HAD OVER AN ENTIRE CITY WAS MIND-BOGGLING. SHIT IM STILL PARANOID AS I TYPE THIS BY MY WINDOW.
BUT THEY SAID THAT SOME DUDE FIGURED OUT THAT THE KILLER MIGHT OF BEEN A WAR VET HE KNEW. IF DUDE WOULD OF KEPT HIS MOUTH SHUT WE PROLLY WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN WHO THE KILLERS WERE. IF HE WOULD OF EXERCISED THE “NO SNITCHING” POLICY. SHIT IS MADD REAL OUT HERE MAN, LIKE PEOPLE ARE DYING OVER PETY SHIT. WE ALL NEED TO STAND UP AND BE RIGHTEOUS WARRIORS FOR OUR LOVED ONES AND DO THE RIGHT THING. ALL THIS HOOD THUG SHIT IS MADD PLAYED-OUT. THE SHIT IS CORNY.
Yes, everyone is equal: but, do you actually BELIEVE everyone is equal? If you ever insulted a person, or spoke down to someone, you are a hypocrite. Instantly. If you truly believed everyone was equal, you would NEVER speak down against you fellow man. Why? Because of the simple question: “Would I not be the same if placed in their situation?” That goes out to everyone.
“I see no equality because it is more blacks than whites being targeted by the cops”
That is a iffy statement. Think of it in a different perspective. Say there is always a fire in a certain place, day-after-day; like clockwork, a fire is always started in the same place. Would firemen not pay closer attention to that area, more than, say, a pool? That’s common sense. Now, by no means am I saying it is right by what the cops are doing. Of course their are times where people are being wrongly targeted. But I am saying, that it’s only practical to patrol areas a “fire” is more likely to happen rather than not.
“Now if we are equal, then why should I learn how to speak like a white person in order to be considered for a certain profession, or to be considered proper?”
The answer is simple. It’s about being professional. When Obama was running for Presidency, and when conducting his speeches he spoke in pure ebonics. Would you vote him? Would you want a man who hasn’t even mastered the english language running our nation? No, the same goes for jobs. Employers look for someone that they feel will best represent their company. They want a person with a good appearance, good people skills, good manors, and someone who speaks with proper english.
You know what is ironic to me? Throughout this blog you spoke so much of Equality. Anyone that didn’t look into it with depth would believe you spoke the words you truly believed in. But with further scrutiny, this blog is riddled with “black people”, “white people”, “niggas”, and “nigus” remarks. If you truly believed in Equality like you portray, you wouldn’t make a division in color like you did. Every person of every race has dealt with struggle, personal attacks, and discrimination. None of those words are slated singly for certain race.
I find it funny how you used a Malcolm X quote. Throughout the majority of Malcolm X’s speeches he spoke highly of separation between black and whites. He was mislead by the Black Muslim Party, they told him that separatism between blacks and whites is the only way to go. They also told him that separatism was apart of the Islamic religion. This can clearly be seen at the time when he broke away from the Black Muslim Party. Malcolm X also strongly believed that non-violence and integration was a trick. While Martin Luther King Jr. “urged blacks to win their rightful place in society by gaining self-respect, high moral standards, hard work and leadership. He also urged blacks to do this in a non-violent matter” (pg. 255, Reflecting Black)
I’m not going to bash you for this blog, because anyone who read this could see how strongly you felt about this subject. But, I don’t agree with many of the points made. I’ll be looking for a good reply though.
How do you get them on the same initiative? Embrace the youth, teach them responsibility, hold them accountable for their actions. Bring education to a higher bar of acceptance. Teach them self-respect, so they will learn to respect their fellow man. Impress in their minds positive morals. Show them that through hard work anything is possible, don’t teach your kids that they deserve something that they didn’t work hard for.
Now of course I’m not perfect and I am a hypocrite in some of the things I was talking about. But I learned to better myself in these aspects over time, besides it’s better late then never.
Or maybe you are just trying to be the asshole and contradict what a lot of people believe and see, I don’t know.
What I know is that we obviously live in two different world, your world is perfect, therefore you are blaming the people who are facin setbacks for stupidity and you are labeling them names.
Whereas in my world, nothing is perfect, there are alot of problems, and I am helping fix as much as I can.
One thing I gotta tell you fam is that you need to stop being blind that there is a lot of fucked up shit goin on out here.
Stay up and open your mind!
Would you tell on them?
I would walk over smacked one and told him where is your selfrespect .
If you rape a girl with a group then you don’t deserve to walk on this earth man .
then your are pathetic .
there is nothing real or gangsta about raping a girl with a group . go educate yourself and get a job so when your got kids and a lovely wife you can try to give them the best possible life you’d missed .
atleast i wont watch 15 min ..
anyway there is noway the violence gonna stop . it’s already to late for that ..
there’s no such thing as “speaking white”… it’s called E-D-U-C-A-T-I-O-N.
white people have had the privilege of nice neighborhoods and schools… know why blacks don’t?
cause they’re ignorant.
i see so many blacks (male and female) so bent on “fuckin the police” that they can’t focus on anything else… that’s ignorance.
why is it that ignorant niggas always see the white man as the enemy? wait… i already answered that.
PS. it’s 2009, if you haven’t figured out what you need to do to succeed in AMERICA… then your parents are fuckin idiots… or maybe it’s just you.
Btw whats up with your tone son who u mad at? We just tryina have a civilized discussion here.